Female chastity keyholders come in two different flavors. First there’s the traditional type of keyholder. She plays the male chastity game by the rules…. his rules!
She is quite amenable, in a patronizing sort of way, to satisfy his desires to be locked up denied. Why
not bring back a little romance, spice up the sex life and get him to do a few chores around the house to boot. Sounds like a win-win situation to her.
That is until he becomes capricious and unreasonable with his wants, wishes and requests with
regards as to how the male chastity game should be played to perfectly align with his particular and peculiar fantasies.
His keyholder eventually becomes quite confused….
Initially he wants to be denied for a minimum of a week but soon decides that is way too long for him go
without an orgasm. Not to mention his chastity device is not as comfortable as he thought it was going to be.
He had planned on taking over all of the housework but is now doing only marginally more than before. He’s having a stressful time at work; she understands and cuts him some slack.
He talked excitedly about possibly becoming her cuckold and exploring all the possibilities that dynamic presented. But he finds himself becoming insanely jealous when she innocently flirts with a guy at his office party.
The male chastity lifestyle that initially sounded so cool to both of them has now become something requiring too much effort to continue on with. They will occasionally play more games, the chastity desires rage too strong within for him not to bring it up again.
But by this time, she has grown quite tired of his moodiness and fragile feelings to take it seriously anymore. The way they’ve been playing around with male chastity is satisfactory for many couples. It can still be a lot of fun although at times, extremely frustrating.
But what happens when the male chastity game is played using a different set of rules…. Her’s!
That’s when She becomes….
The Ultimate Male Chastity Keyholder
Soon after being introduced to the concept of male chastity, the smart woman is able to see the life changing potential for both him and Her.
She understands that the typical man is incapable of taming the raging but powerful sexual emotions churning inside himself…. emotions that can give him so much pleasure but at the same time cause him so much frustration.
Using male chastity coupled with orgasm denial and the help of a male chastity device, a woman can effectively harness the power of the male libido, bringing immense fulfillment and satisfaction to herself and some much needed peace and serenity to him.
This can only be accomplished when she accepts her role as the ultimate female chastity keyholder. This is when the male chastity game is no longer a game, but a lifestyle.
She makes it perfectly clear at the very beginning that any male chastity endeavors will be on her unconditional terms. If he can’t accept that, then it’s really not worth any effort on her part to participate. Male chastity with his agenda is just too damn frustrating of an enterprise.
After the chastity cage is carefully researched, fitted and acclimated to, it goes on and doesn’t come off for…. 30 days!
Although this may seem cruel at first, it is absolutely necessary to firmly set the tone of the male chastity relationship going forward. The prospect of getting him a
male chastity piercing should be considered at this time.
This 30 day period of indoctrination will be equally hard for both him and Her. He will experience a wide range of emotions varying from utter despondency and frustration to undying love and devotion.
She, on the other hand, will be dealing with feelings of guilt and remorse while taking him through this period of virtual hell. During this phase, it’s important for Her to condition and train him to be the type of partner she requires him to be.
He will be conditioned to forgo penetration and any type of orgasm for a minimum of 30 days.
He should also be trained to do all the housework, immaculately with absolutely no complaining, unless she actually enjoys doing some of it.
Additionally, he needs to become an expert in oral servitude. Nothing sets the proper tone of a male chastity lifestyle quite like the level of frustration
he will experience providing Her with climax after climax (either with his tongue or a strap-on dildo) while remaining under lock-and-key. It will take him
a week or so for him to resume sleeping through the night again.
If she has happens to have a mean streak in Her, he should learn to accept physical punishment from the crop or cane, either directly to the dick, balls or
butt. Some females report orgasms of such intensity that literally knock their high heels off after administering a proper caning.
This type of treatment will make him even more submissive, docile and adoring than ever. Instead of whips and paddles, some women prefer the simplicity of a humiliating hard slap to the face.
Frequent tease and denial sessions can also be incorporated to keep his level of frustration and interest at a high level during the indoctrination period. It is vitally important to get him back into his chastity device immediately at the end of the tease&denial session.
Either an ice-pack applied to the dick and balls or a flick of her perfectly manicured finger nail aimed directly at the very end of the glans of the penis will get him soft in a hurry.
This initial 30 day training period will be a lot of work for Her. She will come away realizing that she can dish out more discipline than she ever thought possible while he will become accustomed to enduring whatever training methods she deems appropriate.
Once Her rules of male chastity are firmly and consistently set in place, she can settle back and enjoy the privileges and benefits that come with being the ultimate male chastity keyholder. But to obtain that status, she will first need to get him locked up in a male chastity device, which she can find by