Male Chastity Training Tips for the Female Keyholder
She now has him locked up in his chastity device, just like he wanted, with
the key safely hidden away or maybe even hanging sexily around her neck.
It’s now time for her to begin his training.
Male chastity isn’t something where once he’s locked up he is instantly at her beck and call, ready to serve.
A newly locked up male must be properly ‘broken-in’. Any couple successfully living a
male chastity lifestyle has at it’s firm foundation, a properly trained male.
Properly trained by his Keyholder.
Chastity training of a male is a process…. it’s going to take some time.
There are two aspects to his training, the physical and the emotional.
Anytime a man begins wearing a male chastity device, whether it’s a cage
configuration or a belt type, there is going to be some mild rubbing, chafing
and discomfort until he becomes accustomed to it.
A couple can start off with him getting used to wearing it overnight.
Once that benchmark has been cleared, it’s time to try for a week of
uninterrupted wear. Depending on the chastity device and the male, this could take a while.
Once he can accept a week of continuous confinement with little or no discomfort,
then he can be considered physically trained.
If the couple opts to make the chastity device more secure by way of a PA
piercing, then this will of course take some additional time to heal up.
The easy part is now over. Emotionally preparing a male to endure long term
captivity and orgasm denial takes some tenacious training on the part of the Keyholder.
The initial firm and consistent effort required by the female will eventually
reap massive rewards for her and ample appreciation from him.
She needs to stay aware of the truth that he is the one who has asked to be
locked up and in spite of his backtracking behavior, this is what he really wants.
He will, at some point, ask to be let out and allowed to cum before the
scheduled time that has been previously agreed upon.
As the Keyholder, her job is to firmly follow the plan that has been laid
out…. no matter what he says.
If he becomes consistently annoying with his whining behavior then a little
reverse psychology will usually solve the problem.
She should just hand him the keys and invite him to take the chastity device off right then and there.
There are consequences of course. If he decides to take the chastity device
off, then he is admitting to her, himself and the rest of the world that male chastity and
orgasm denial is not for him after all.
She would then expect no further mention of anything to do with male chastity
from this point forward in their relationship.
However, if he decides to hand the keys back to her (which will happen about
99% of the time), then there will be no more queries from him about any type
of early release. Absolutely no complaining, bitching or whining will be
Once she summons up the moxie to draw a line in the sand with her 4 inch high
heel, she is well on her way to having a well trained, chastised male.
And who knows, maybe even someday he will be downgraded to serving merely as her
male chastity slave, with her being the one receiving the sex.
She is now quickly coming to the realization that she is going to enjoy being
a Keyholder, probably much more than the fleeting pleasure he will receive being denied and locked up
in male chastity device.
If your relationship is ready to experience some added excitement and
eroticism, nothing will do the job quite like putting him into male chastity.
You will need a chastity device however, which you will find