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Cam
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Hi I’ve tried two chastity cages, one plastic and one rubber. Both of my cages seem to pull my balls far forward when I get hard and it is really uncomfortable for my balls can anyone help with this please?


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Barthvader
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Hi,

thats normal.

In the beginning it's hard, but further intime your erections become lesser and lesser and wearing your device becomes comfortabeler.

Keep on being chastisised. 


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RPChance
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So many men seem to think that chastity should be easy and comfortable and somehow be all about them.  That is not the case my fellow males.  If your wife/+1 cages you it is to keep you from experiencing enjoyment.  With that comes some pain and a lot of agony.  It's supposed to hurt, it's supposed to deny you pleasure.  I don't know where the idea comes from you quit having erections in your cage, but for me at least that is not the case.

 

Suck it up guys, subsume your desires and do as you are told.


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Peter
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My cage is far too small and bothers me every minute of every day. I am not allowed to talk about my cage or bring it up at all. I have no idea when I will be released, I am not allowed to talk about that either. I was told we would have a discussion about a release date somewhere in the future after a year of chastity. Anyway, mine is very uncomfortable and bothers me greatly. 


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Mongo
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@Peter

i have been caged for 66 weeks now and my cage is ot a problem, I wear it 24/7/365 except when I wash my cock and balls on Sundays and maybe once every 3 months for an edging. My wife has gotten very good at edging and can get me to screaming and really squirming, but she is able to stop just before I cum at all, no fluid escapes any more. She has a rare talent.It is a steel somewhat open cage. At first, I had problems similar to yours, my cock is 4" and balls about nomal, I suppose. The problem with all the uncomfortable cages was the ring size was too small. I always get 50mm rings now and am fine.


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Is purple ever a good colour?

I’m a middle aged guy getting into this with my gf. I’ve been trying on a ManCage plastic device. It’s more or less the right fit but I’m not sure about the best ring size. The trade-off is this.

I have one ball that’s quite a bit smaller than the other. If I use an initially more comfortable ring size, somehow the small one escapes then the big one, so then the device has more or less come off. Also the ring tends to work its way up my ball sack making a painful pinch that’s not right. So it seems those rings are too large.

The smallest ring does seem to keep everything in place & I’m getting to used to a little tightness under the balls, doesn’t seem to serious. However if I wake with a nighttime “hardon” where the tube is filled right up with cock, my whole balls and cock package gets very purple, never a good colour. (It’s obviously also uncomfortable but I expect that). The purple goes very quickly once I’m awake and the hardon goes away.

Is this ring dangerously small so that I may damage myself? Or is that normal enough function? It’s been kind of difficult to find a cage to fit & stay put! This smaller ring mostly feels like it does the job when I’m not really maxing our but obviously I don’t want to injure myself from restricted blood flow! I hope to be able to get into being caged long-term but need that correct fit. Thanks!


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Srry for the late answer, I think one ball is always bigger than the other, I use a 45 ring and about 2 times a month, a nut escapes the ring, but I can push it back in most of the times. 

You should try a different type of cage, with a slightly larger ring size, dark purple is not good. For long time wear, steel cages are better than plastic ones IMO.

Please don't mind my English, it isn't my native language.


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Posted by: @RPChance

So many men seem to think that chastity should be easy and comfortable and somehow be all about them.  That is not the case my fellow males.  If your wife/+1 cages you it is to keep you from experiencing enjoyment.  With that comes some pain and a lot of agony.  It's supposed to hurt, it's supposed to deny you pleasure.  I don't know where the idea comes from you quit having erections in your cage, but for me at least that is not the case.

 

Suck it up guys, subsume your desires and do as you are told.

Absolutely right! I have made a lot of enquiries now over nearly 1 year. My personal truth now is, Your description meets my understanding of real male chastity, except the part of being able having erections in the cage or not. But this depends on the wifes goal.

There generally are two types of chastised men.

The Ones, that understand chastity as a simple kink with short time effects (I name those the "session chasters"). The aim is simple: (forced) chastity arouses those men, but it is only accepted to last until they will have their release. This kind of men lives chastity on and off. They want chastity, they need it, they cry for it, beg for it .... if they get it, they soon start complaining, tell their wife what she would do well to easy his pain, to make it easier for him to last and so on. If the session is short timed, the cage may be painful. Thats kind of CBT for those men. For long running sessions they need a very comfortably cage (that does not deserve this name).Here is an erection part of the game. But lets face it: this has nothing to do with chastity, its a kink for wankers.

And then there are the Others, that understand chastity as a (forced) lifestyle with so much more content, with long term aims and enormous effects to 24/7/365 life and partnership! This is my goal.

My advice to @Cam:

Decide, what kind of type you want to belong to. If its just a kink, buy cage after cage until one fits your (comfortable) expectation.

If you like to get into the lifestyle, do some research and train yourself step by step. A little bit of pain and uncomfortable feelings are nessesary to remind you what there is between your legs ... and WHY it is there.

 

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Behind every submissive man, there belongs a woman with crop and collar.
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I have just started out and the first one I had on and still have is so small that my balls will swell up after a day or two. Later on my glands will grow pale at the tip, and blue at the ridge and this is usually when I am allowed to put on the more spacious model. If it suits my mistress.


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A perfectly sized cock ring will fit snugly behind your testicles but will continue to allow blood to flow to the penis. It should not pinch or leave your equipment feeling numb or uncomfortable.

Because the penis is round and plump in shape, it is quite difficult to measure the diameter of yours on its own. Therefore, I recommend measuring the circumference - the full distance around your cock - and then performing a simple calculation in order to determine the diameter from there.

To obtain an accurate measurement of your cock's circumference, I recommend first taking a hot bath or shower. This will leave your cock flaccid but encourage the active flow of blood so that your final result will account for the slight swelling of the equipment as blood passes through. For best results, take your measurement immediately upon getting out of the shower or bath, before your body has had any time to cool down.

You can measure yourself using a number of common household objects. A measuring tape is made from yielding cloth which is specifically designed to measure round or irregularly shaped objects.

This can be easily wrapped around the cock just behind the testicles. If you do not own a measuring tape, you can instead wrap a length of string or ribbon around your cock, then straighten it out and record its length using a ruler.

Once you've got your circumference measurement, simply divide it by pi (approximately 3.14) to obtain the diameter. Below are a few examples of such calculations using popular cock ring sizes:

Circumference behind testicles of 157mm (6.1 inches) ÷ 3.14 = cock ring diameter of 50mm (1.96 inches)

Circumference behind testicles of 141mm (5.5 inches) ÷ 3.14 = cock ring diameter of 45mm (1.77 inches)

Circumference behind testicles of 125mm (4.9 inches) ÷ 3.14 = cock ring diameter of 40mm (1.57 inches)

Taking measurements for the long "tube" portion of your new cock cage is a significantly simpler process. You can use a straight ruler to measure the length of your equipment from base to tip.

As with the ring measurement, I recommend doing this right after a hot bath or shower, so that the penis is completely flaccid but there is some active blood flow to the area.

Stand up tall with your back straight. Place the edge of the ruler against the base of your penis and lay it flat on the top of your penis. Then, in order to obtain the most accurate measurement, press the ruler firmly against your pubic bone, which prevents any belly fat from getting in the way and messing up your measurement.

When choosing a cage, do not look for the tube which most closely matches your equipment in length. Instead, subtract between 1/4 inch and 1/2 inch (6 and 13 mm) from your measurement. For example:

Flaccid penis length of 4 inches = 3.5 or 3.75 inch cage

Flaccid penis length of 3 inches = 2.5 or 2.75 inch cage

Flaccid penis length of 2 inches = 1.5 or 1.75 inch cage

Flaccid penis length of less than 2 inches = 1 or 1.25 inch cage

The ideal cock cage tube will fit your penis tightly but not constrict it to the point that it cannot release urine. Ideally, your urethral slit will lie against the opening at the end of the tube. The width of the cage will be narrow and completely prevent you from achieving erection, no matter how aroused you may become. wechat mistress-queen


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Niked Scott
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That has always been my thought when I’ve been submissive. I am presently in the introductory stage of wearing one. I think it should be about denial. That’s your lot in life as a submissive.


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Alex
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For the guy who have problem with the cage, bigger ring versus small ring: solution for this could be a piercing who woks very well with a chastity cage and you can wear a comfortable ring and also guaranty of no escape :))


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