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Tease and Denial Equal Male Devotion

tease and denial

Male chastity and orgasm denial go together like chocolate chip cookies and
milk, Beavis and Butthead or Sonny and Cher. Something just doesn’t seem right
having one without the other.

But for a male chastity lifestyle to work-out over the long haul, the male is going to need some occasional positive reinforcement between his orgasms, if he
is allowed any at all.

That’s why tease and denial work so damn well together; it effectively keeps
him in a perpetual state of erotic ecstasy that can become extremely addictive.

Tease and denial sessions don’t need to be scheduled more often that once per
week. More frequent that and they become too much work for the woman while
they can send a man to the insane asylum.

A smart woman uses these strategically scheduled sessions to keep the male in
a lustful state, locked up in a chastity device, which renders him as the attentive and devoted boyfriend or husband that she needs him to be.

If the tease and denial sessions wind up turning her on, as they most likely
will, she can cum as much as she wants all the while keeping him denied.

Here are some popular tease and denial ideas that she may want to consider
implementing into her male chastity program.

teased and denied

» He is naked and standing up with his hands restrained
behind his back. She, dressed in sexy lingerie, sits on the bed in
front of him and takes his chastity device off. After stroking him to the edge as
many time as she likes, she uses an ice-pack to make him small enough to get him
locked back up in his male chastity device.

Immediately afterwards, she lays back on the bed and uses her favorite
vibrator or dildo to get herself off. If she is feeling particularly wicked, she
will undo his hands, have him don a strap-on so he can fuck the shit out of her.
No reason for her to go without penetrative sex just because he has to.

» With the same set-up as above, she deftly manipulates him to a
ruined orgasm. This will take some practice and skill to get the timing down,
but when done just right, it can be much more frustrating for the male than
simple orgasm denial.

» She passionately kisses him and fondles his caged cock through his
pants right before sending him off to work; all the while dressed up in her
sexiest outfit of course.

» If he has displayed exceptional behavior during the week, she allows him
an opportunity to spin-the-wheel or roll the dice with varying outcomes. Some of
the choices/consequences can be….

  • Sorry…. spin again next week but only if behavior warrants it
  • Hard penis whipping with no orgasm
  • Full on fuck with orgasm
  • Her whim…. if any
  • Full on fuck with no orgasm permitted
  • Allowed to masturbate – time, place and method of her choosing
  • Full on fuck using a strap-on with chastity device in place
  • Masturbate on her ass and lick-up his mess
  • Ruined orgasm
  • Forced milking – lick-up the mess afterwards

Remember, this is T&D so she should make sure that the game is rigged so that there will be
no male orgasm 70 to 80% of the time. It’s in her best interests to keep him
wondering what’s next.

There are many more ideas for T&D sessions too numerous to list here. Erotic
and stimulating tease and denial scenarios are really only limited by her iniquitous imagination.

She should use her ingenuity, using tease and denial techniques that will take him to a previously uncharted area
of male devotion. Effective long term denial will obviously require that he be
put in a male chastity device, which you can find
right here.

Chastity Humiliation – For Her Amusement Only

chastity humiliation

Of the various sub-plots and story-lines
that run below the surface of any male chastity relationship, and one that
can’t be denied, is the presence of some form of chastity humiliation.

Any man who initially desires and then acquiesces to male chastity is
admitting to himself and more importantly, to his Keyholder, that he is
in some way under-equipped or just ‘not enough’ to play role of legitimate manhood.

Now he may actually be of adequate size and virile in every other way….
just not inside his head, where it really counts. But when he allows his
female Keyholder to click the lock shut on his chastity device, this newly
chastised male can’t help but to revel in his implied humiliation.

Of course there are many other feelings associated with male chastity
such as, intense sexual servitude, sacrifice, submission, slavery, etc.
But chastity humiliation is right there along side with the rest of them.

His Keyholder may not be entirely aware of the heightened emotions swirling
around inside the head of Her caged-up male. Her role is to keep his aroused
male excitement at an excruciating high and agitated level.

And what better way than by mercilessly reminding him of his humiliating
predicament…. one that he has chosen and that she has agreed to enthusiastically

With just a subtle shift in Her attitude, the constant pang and yearning
between his legs serves as a catalyst for Her to humiliate him while amusing herself.

The number of ways to accomplish this are only limited by Her imagination.

For instance….

  • She can experience as many orgasms as She wants…. anytime, anywhere
    and with anyone of Her choosing.
  • His orgasms (if any) are at Her discretion, whim and for Her amusement.
  • She constantly reminds him that his dick is too small to ever enter HER.
  • She requires that he make up for his sexual inadequacy by doing
    all of the housework (dressed-up as a French maid if it so amuses her).
  • He can be ordered to place his hands behind his back to receive
    a hard slap to the face if he says or does anything to piss Her off
    (or maybe She's just having a bad day).
  • She conducts frequent, frustrating tease and denial sessions that
    are agony for him and fun for Her. An ice-pack is then applied to his
    dick so She can immediately get him back in his male chastity device.
  • When She invites girlfriends over for drinks, he serves them wearing
    only his chastity device, an anal plug, high heels and lipstick.
  • If one of Her girlfriends gets drunk enough, he is instructed to
    go to the bathroom, remove the anal plug and give himself an enema so
    her girlfriend can fuck him in the ass with a strap-on while the other girls cheer her on.
  • If he has earned an orgasm, She makes sure it is a humiliating one.
    With his hands handcuffed behind his back, he humps the kitchen floor
    until he cums. He should NEVER have to be directed to lick-up his mess afterwards.
  • He must use a strap-on dildo (with his chastity device locked in
    place) to satisfy Her need for penetrative sex. She can use a riding
    crop on his ass to keep him moving at the proper speed and cadence for HER pleasure.
  • When She wants the real thing, he ‘fluffs-up’ her lover before he
    places the condom on her boyfriend’s dick. He then scurries off to clean-up
    the kitchen while She has fun. That WILL definitely amuse HER and humiliate him
    now that he’s a
    chastity cuckold.
  • As noted earlier, his orgasms (if allowed) are always of the humiliating
    variety and primarily for Her amusement. Masturbating on Her’s or a
    girlfriend’s nylon encased leg while requiring him to lick-up his mess afterwards should do the trick.

humiliating orgasm

Prior to embarking on a male chastity lifestyle, many women struggle
with the silly old habit of being too damn nice.

This is NOT want he wants! A chastised male desperately needs to be cruelly
controlled, indignantly directed, and un-mercilessly humiliated.

Allowing him to ‘top from the bottom’ will not allow Her to transform
the relationship so it can realize its true potential.

At some point She must come to the realization that it’s all about the
female Keyholder…. Her! It’s all about him accepting chastity humiliation in order for
Her to fully experience her female power.

There is no form of power exchange that can provide such a humiliating
experience for a man than male chastity? You can find a very effective male
chastity device
right here.