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The Ultimate Male Chastity Keyholder

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Female Keyholders come in two different
flavors. First there’s the traditional type of keyholder. She plays the male
chastity game by the rules…. his rules!

She is quite amenable, in a patronizing sort of way, to satisfy his desires to be locked up denied. Why
not bring back a little romance, spice up the sex life and get him to do a few
chores around the house to boot. Sounds like a win-win situation to her.

That is until he becomes capricious and unreasonable with his wants, wishes and requests with
regards as to how the male chastity game should be played to perfectly align
with his particular and peculiar fantasies.

His keyholder eventually becomes quite confused….

Initially he wants to be denied for a minimum of a week but soon decides that is way too long for him go
without an orgasm. Not to mention his chastity device is not as comfortable as he
thought it was going to be.

He had planned on taking over all of the housework but is now doing only
marginally more than before. He’s having a stressful time at work; she
understands and cuts him some slack.

He talked excitedly about possibly becoming her cuckold and exploring all the
possibilities that dynamic presented. But he finds himself becoming insanely
jealous when she innocently flirts with a guy at his office party.

The male chastity lifestyle that initially sounded so cool to both of them
has now become something requiring too much effort to continue on with. They will
occasionally play more games, the chastity desires rage too strong within for him
not to bring it up again.

But by this time, she has grown quite tired of his moodiness and
fragile feelings to take it seriously anymore. The way they’ve been playing
around with male chastity is satisfactory for many couples. It can still be a
lot of fun although at times, extremely frustrating.

But what happens when the male chastity game is played using a different set
of rules…. Her’s!

That’s when She becomes….

The Ultimate Male Chastity Keyholder

Soon after being introduced to the concept of male chastity, the smart woman
is able to see the life changing potential for both him and Her.

She understands that the typical man is incapable of taming the raging but
powerful sexual emotions churning inside himself…. emotions that can give him
so much pleasure but at the same time cause him so much frustration.

Using male chastity coupled with orgasm denial and the help of a
male chastity device, a woman can effectively
harness the power of the male libido, bringing immense fulfillment and
satisfaction to herself and some much needed peace and serenity to him.

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This can only be accomplished when she accepts her role as the ultimate
female chastity keyholder. This is when the male chastity game is no longer a
game, but a lifestyle.

She makes it perfectly clear at the very beginning that any male chastity
endeavors will be on her unconditional terms. If he can’t accept that, then it’s
really not worth any effort on her part to participate. Male chastity with his
agenda is just too damn frustrating of an enterprise.

After the chastity cage is carefully researched, fitted and acclimated to, it
goes on and doesn’t come off for…. 30 days!

Although this may seem cruel at first, it is absolutely necessary to firmly
set the tone of the male chastity relationship going forward. The prospect of
getting him a

male chastity piercing
should be considered at this time.

This 30 day period of indoctrination will be equally hard for both him and
Her. He will experience a wide range of emotions varying from utter despondency
and frustration to undying love and devotion.

She, on the other hand, will be dealing with feelings of guilt and remorse
while taking him through this period of virtual hell. During this phase, it’s
important for Her to condition and train him to be the type of partner she
requires him to be.

He will be conditioned to forgo penetration and any type of orgasm for a
minimum of 30 days.

He should also be trained to do all the housework, immaculately with
absolutely no complaining, unless she actually enjoys doing some of it.

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Additionally, he needs to become an expert in oral servitude. Nothing sets
the proper tone of a male chastity lifestyle quite like the level of frustration
he will experience providing Her with climax after climax (either with his
tongue or a strap-on dildo) while remaining under lock-and-key. It will take him
a week or so for him to resume sleeping through the night again.

If she has happens to have a mean streak in Her, he should learn to accept
physical punishment from the crop or cane, either directly to the dick, balls or
butt. Some females report orgasms of such intensity that literally knock their
high heels off after administering a proper caning.

This type of treatment will make him even more submissive, docile and adoring
than ever. Instead of whips and paddles, some women prefer the simplicity of a
humiliating hard slap to the face.

Frequent tease and denial sessions can also be incorporated to keep his level
of frustration and interest at a high level during the indoctrination period. It
is vitally important to get him back into his chastity device immediately at the
end of the tease&denial session.

Either an ice-pack applied to the dick and balls or a flick of her perfectly
manicured finger nail aimed directly at the very end of the glans of the penis will get him soft in a hurry.

This initial 30 day training period will be a lot of work for Her. She will
come away realizing that she can dish out more discipline than she ever thought
possible while he will become accustomed to enduring whatever training methods
she deems appropriate.

Once Her rules of male chastity are firmly and consistently set in place, she
can settle back and enjoy the privileges and benefits that come with being the
ultimate male chastity keyholder. But to obtain that status, she will first need
to get him locked up in a male chastity device, which she can find by

clicking here
.

Male Chastity Training Tips for the Female Keyholder

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She now has him locked up in his chastity device, just like he wanted, with
the key safely hidden away or maybe even hanging sexily around her neck.

It’s now time for her to begin his training.

Male chastity isn’t something where once he’s locked up he is instantly at her beck and call, ready to serve.

A newly locked up male must be properly ‘broken-in’. Any couple successfully living a
male chastity lifestyle has at it’s firm foundation, a properly trained male.

Properly trained by his Keyholder.

Chastity training of a male is a process…. it’s going to take some time.
There are two aspects to his training, the physical and the emotional.

Anytime a man begins wearing a male chastity device, whether it’s a cage
configuration or a belt type, there is going to be some mild rubbing, chafing
and discomfort until he becomes accustomed to it.

A couple can start off with him getting used to wearing it overnight.
Once that benchmark has been cleared, it’s time to try for a week of
uninterrupted wear. Depending on the chastity device and the male, this could take a while.

Once he can accept a week of continuous confinement with little or no discomfort,
then he can be considered physically trained.

If the couple opts to make the chastity device more secure by way of a PA
piercing, then this will of course take some additional time to heal up.

The easy part is now over. Emotionally preparing a male to endure long term
captivity and orgasm denial takes some tenacious training on the part of the Keyholder.

The initial firm and consistent effort required by the female will eventually
reap massive rewards for her and ample appreciation from him.

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She needs to stay aware of the truth that he is the one who has asked to be
locked up and in spite of his backtracking behavior, this is what he really wants.

He will, at some point, ask to be let out and allowed to cum before the
scheduled time that has been previously agreed upon.

As the Keyholder, her job is to firmly follow the plan that has been laid
out…. no matter what he says.

If he becomes consistently annoying with his whining behavior then a little
reverse psychology will usually solve the problem.

She should just hand him the keys and invite him to take the chastity device off right then and there.

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There are consequences of course. If he decides to take the chastity device
off, then he is admitting to her, himself and the rest of the world that male chastity and
orgasm denial is not for him after all.

She would then expect no further mention of anything to do with male chastity
from this point forward in their relationship.

However, if he decides to hand the keys back to her (which will happen about
99% of the time), then there will be no more queries from him about any type
of early release. Absolutely no complaining, bitching or whining will be
permitted…. PERIOD.

Once she summons up the moxie to draw a line in the sand with her 4 inch high
heel, she is well on her way to having a well trained, chastised male.

And who knows, maybe even someday he will be downgraded to serving merely as her

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, with her being the one receiving the sex.

She is now quickly coming to the realization that she is going to enjoy being
a Keyholder, probably much more than the fleeting pleasure he will receive being denied and locked up
in male chastity device.

If your relationship is ready to experience some added excitement and
eroticism, nothing will do the job quite like putting him into male chastity.
You will need a chastity device however, which you will find
right here.

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